Teenage years: Self-harm is a difficult, yet prevalent topic in the lives of many teenagers. Article covers ways in which parents can help their children.

Context:

  • Expressing feelings to parents is difficult for many teenagers
  • Teenagers who engage in self-harm do so when they are in their early teens
  • Self-harm may be a result of experiencing overwhelming or intense feelings and pressures that that they do not know how to deal with – self harm serves as an emotional release
  • The longer the practice is done, the longer it takes to move past them with both professional help and support from home

Advice given:

  • Parents to do is to remain calm after finding out that their teens are harming themselves
  • Although hesitant about approaching teen, it is important to have open conversations with them about their self-harm
    • Straightforward and clear spoken
    • Despite possible negative reactions, parents should not deem conversations as failed
  • Teens need to know that their parents are aware of their self-harming behavior: it is the only way to that help can begin
  • Frustration no behalf of the parent is a normal reaction, yet only positive ways to vent this frustration can help the recovery process
  • Parents need to offer constant support
    • Let them know that parents are there when they need them
    • Teens need to know that talking to their parents is okay when their feelings are overwhelming
    • Helping teens find activities to be involved in that can help distract them from self-harming tendencies
  • Seek professional help: this is “non-negotiable”
    • professional help will be necessary for teens to truly work through the issues that lead them to harm themselves
    • can help teen to find coping strategies to use instead of self-harm

 

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