The brochure "Families without Borders: 20 Questions and Answers about Children for the Parents Who Leave the Country" is specially designed for the parents who intend to leave or have already left the country to work abroad. On the other hand, it can also serve as a pocket guidebook for all the parents.
You will find in it the parents’ most common questions about communication and relationship with children before and after leaving. The brochure tries to give useful and short answers to help parents maintain and develop a sound and "borderless" relationship with the children. We strongly believe that the geographic distance that separates temporarily the members of a family cannot be an obstacle to the communication with the children.
The contents of the publication are:
Questions and answers before leaving
1. Why should I talk to the child about my intention to leave?
2. When, how and what do I tell the child about my decision?
3. What do the child’s various reactions to my decision suggest?
4. What if the child tells me "don’t go"?
5. How do I prepare the child for my leaving?
6. What should I do before leaving?
7. How do I choose the person who will take care of my child?
8. Who do I turn to for help?
Questions and answers after leaving
9. Why should I communicate with my child while i am away?
10. What communication channels do i use?
11. What do I talk about with the child while i am away?
12. How do I understand the child while i am away?
13. How do I help the child to get over my leaving?
14. How do I participate in the raising, education and development of the child while i am away?
15. How do I talk to the child about sensitive issues?
16. What do I do if i suspect that the child is a victim of abuse or violence?
17. How do I manage conflicts?
18. How do I stay in touch with my child’s carer?
19. How do we plan our future together?
20. What other resources can be useful to me?
"Families without Borders: 20 Questions and Answers about Children for the Parents Who Leave the Country" has been produced under the “Migration and Child Protection” project implemented by Terre des hommes Moldova and supported through the Human Rights Fund of The Netherlands Embassy. For more details, visit www.farahotare.md.